Author: Natasha




Hello dear people!


Today I like to remember you to question our reality and not to take things for granted.  And in this video I would like to invite you to think and to do things differently!

Namely, we people get easily used to certain habits, behaviours, structures, systems, rules, traditions…And often unconsciously we repeat certain behaviors or habits. At the same time we are often not aware that on the long-term, these have a negative influence or even can be harmful to our future, our lives or our relationships.

But, change is not easy for us as human beings. We people shall only change if in certain situations we walk against the wall or we feel pushed somewhere to the corner. Because the greatest longing in us is to stay faithful to our known identity.


In this video I use as an example the behavior of the ants in the nature, which walk very faithfully in each other's footsteps and bring food to their colony. But, when their living conditions drastically change and when all their traces that help them to return to their colony have disappeared; in their attempt to survive the ants start to walk in each other's footsteps again. AND then unknowingly, they sometimes continue walking in large circles until they die.


And this pattern often happens in our life and relationships too. We humans often repeat certain behaviors, even if they don't work, because we don't know how to do things differently in order to change our living conditions.

Instead of sticking to the old learned behaviors, in this video I would like to invite you to start thinking OUT OF THE BOX! Try things out in a different way,  experiment and search and don't settle down until you  find a way that works for YOU!


Know dear friends that the best way to separate and to break the relationship is to blame and to shame each other. And be aware that positive reinforcement is much more efficient than a negative one.


And one thing is sure. LOVE has a special power. Love is an irresistible force when it is sincere. And LOVE can break through any shield when it is consistent. This is a spiritual law.


So, think out of the box! Let your creativity play and try to discover what works for YOU!


I wish you lots of success and lots of LOVE!


With love and appreciation!




How to make the right decisions?



Hello dear people!

I made this short video inspired by a client I've had this morning who needed to take a decision in a short time & under pressure…!

In my idea, one of the most important inner guides when making decisions is our inner peace. For example, do we feel this inner peace when we choose the first option, or the second option?

In my experience the decisions based on fear or on feeling restless or unquiet inside are not the right one. Learning to trust our inner feelings is crucial. The beautiful thing in this process is that the more we learn to listen to our inner voice, the sharper it becomes!

What is your experience? And how do you make your decisions in this kind of circumstances?

I would love to hear from you!

Thank you for watching!

With much love and appreciation!


Do you listen or do you hear?



Hi dear people,


In my work as a coach in personal development I’ve noticed that many people don’t know the difference between listening and hearing. And this is or can become a huge problem in relationships, especially in partnerships, but also in friendships and also in work relationships.
Since life is becoming busier and we are daily exposed to every kind of information from different kind of sources; we have to choose constantly to what we are going to give our attention and to what not. Therefore very often the attention for each other stays on the surface and the communication becomes functional. Then people only hear half to each other and make a lot of assumptions. And this is destructive for the communication, especially in close relationships.
Everyone wants to be listened and understood in the deepness and not everyone likes immediately to hear advises and solutions. Self-expression is our biggest birthright. When you deeply listen to the other person, you feel also deeply connected.
And in the essence everyone longs for a deep(er) connection with others. And deep connections are created when we are really interested in each other and listen carefully to what the other person likes to say with empty head and open heart. Then the other one feels spiritually embraced.
Since I’ve noticed that this is a problem in many relationships, I was inspired to make this video. My motivation is to contribute a little bit to the quality of your relationships in the wish that you can connect deeper with each other; because I’ve understood that the real happiness comes when we are capable to connect deeply with other human beings.
Thank you for watching! I wish you a great day and till the next video!
With love and appreciation!
Natasha Martinoska

     JOY Keeps Us Vital, Healthy And Alive!



Hello dear people!


In this video I speak about joy! Joy was an issue in my life. As a child I was too serious. And I realized later that when we have tests and difficulties in life, it is not always easy to find the joy again. And this video I dedicated to joy to remember us that joy is very important because of number of reasons:

- Joy strengthens our free will;
- Joy gives us wings;
- Joy keeps us healthy;
- Joy builds on creativity;
- Joy strengthens our self-esteem system!

And sadness belongs also to life. Only we may learn to feel it and to let it go and not to cherish it. Because people who cherish sadness over many years, unconsciously build on fear and therefore can create many problems to themselves. So, joy is what is keeping us vital, healthy and alive!


Let met know what gives you joy, I would love to hear from you!


Thank you for watching, I wish you a great day and till the next video!


Warm greetings,



Hereby the link to the video over to please vs to serve:


5 Reasons Why PATIENCE Is So Important In Our Life!



Hereby the link to the video: To hurry up is to slow yourself fown in achieving your goal:


Hello dear people!

Patience is one of the most important qualities that I had to learn in my life. I was always very ambitious and wanted often to do everything at once until I understood that this attitude is not good for me and also it does not work. Through my life's circumstances and my life's lessons I've learned to value patience much more and also to practice it. In this video I explain 5 reasons how it comes that patience is important for our personal development.
There is a very nice expression which is saying: "The world belongs to the patient man".

I hope you enjoy the video. A wish you a beautiful day!

Warm greetings,


To Hurry Up is to Slow Yourself Down in Achieving Your Goal!



Many people today live in a hurry. Time has become so precious today. Living in a hurry for some people has become a way of life.

I also had this constant rushing in my life. Till I understood that when I do the things in a hurry I arrive later to my goal. This was a huge lesson for me and my inspiration to make this video!

In my work as a coach I see this issue also present in the life of the people I work with. And this attitude has more aspects:
1) To hurry up breaks you down!
2) Decisions made in a hurry often are not the right ones!
3) To hurry means not to have trust in life that life will give you on time what you need.
4) To hurry slows you down!

In this video I give 5 tips how to go on with this issue.
I hope you find these useful.

Thank you for watching! A wish you a great day!


Warm greetings,


Irritation and Annoyance My Biggest Teachers



Hello dear people!


Here is Natasha with you today and my topic for today is: “How it comes that the people who annoy you are your biggest teachers”!


Namely most of the people want to live and work in environments in which they are surrounded with people who like them. Namely, we all like to work with people with whom we can communicate in an easy way, who understand us quickly and we don’t have to use too many words to explain what we mean!
But how big is the chance that we can live and work only with people on our frequency? Very little!


This was my motivation to make this video in which I explain the difference between irritation and annoyance in the hope to help people tp create better relationships with themselves and their surrounding!

Watch my video if you like to learn more about this!


With much love and appreciation!


Four Conditions and Tips for a Happy Relationship!




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Hello dear people!

In this video my dear husband Ton Creemers, (who is expert in relationships, among his other disciplines) and me are talking about the four conditions which are necessary in order to start a happy relationship in the basic and we are giving also some tips for having a great loving relationship!

These four elements are:
1) the purpose in life;
2) the intellectual level;
3) the feelings and emotions; &
4) the physical attraction.

When the first three are there, then people have a good friendship. The all four aspects are necessary for having a good, happy and loving relationship.

Watch our video if you like to learn more about this!

With much love and appreciation!



Hereby the link to the video: The Difference between Falling in Love and LOVE !

The Difference between Falling in Love and LOVE !



Hello dear people!


In this video I’ve invited my husband Ton Creemers who is expert in relationships, among his other disciplines, to speak together about the the difference between Falling in Love and Love!


Namely, in my work as a coach I’ve noticed that many people don’t know the difference between these two topics. Falling in love is short term, while Love is something which can develop and grow on long-term depends on the characters of both partners and what they will choose. Love is a verb and needs a lot of work and effort, so it needs to be cherished and nurtured.

Watch my video if you are interested to know more about this very important topic in life.


Thanks for watching and I wish you a great day!


With love and appreciation!



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Do You Know Your Own Personal Power?


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Hi dear people!


Here is Natasha with you today and today I ask you the question:


Do you know your personal power?


I will explain you how it comes that I do this?


In my work as a coach I also follow different courses about personal development, online marketing and which elements make someone really successful.


I see several business coaches, marketing and online gurus who shout loudly that they have discovered the formula how to earn a lot of money and that others can learn this too.

I am also learning how to use online marketing for my business, how can I use webinars and social media for my business, and I am also working on my online academies.


And I see a lot of people who follow different courses about this, eventually get disappointed because they are not able to achieve what they were promised.

So I´m busy for a while to investigate what makes someone really successful. For a long time I thought that this is knowledge!

Namely, knowledge is strength and illuminates the life of man. I’m a person who wants to learn and the more I develop in this process, I see also how my shortcomings change, I get more insights, space and tools. As a result I experience how my private and professional life and my relationships improve in a very positive way. And this is also what I see in my work as a coach with people, how my clients grow and become happier!


And I truly believe that ignorance or unknowing is the greatest evil in the world, because people who don’t have the knowledge and the insights, get stuck in negativity; become depressed, disappointed or bitter and lose hope for something better in their lives. As a result, they also run the risk of losing relationships or work and are getting into a negative spiral, as a result of which every chance for development seems to be lost. Then life lose color and people become apathetic, constantly facing their own shortcomings. As a result their tests or challenges in life will only increase until they become awakened by a really big crisis and understand and learn their life lesson and do something about it!


But is knowledge now the biggest factor that makes someone successful? My answer to this question is no! I understood that the biggest factor that makes someone successful is the personal power. The personal power depends on the will of man to transform a certain idea into reality.


We are all born with a certain limited potential personal power. We are all equal but not the same. There are people who are born with a personal power which has a size of a thimble, others with the size of one cup and others with the size of a liter and other people are born with a personal power of a barrel and so on and so on!


So, not everyone can be a president! And all personality power levels are needed so that society can be organized in all kinds of professions and we can support each other in a positive way in the things we are good at. If everyone was the same, there should be no one to repair the roads or drive the buses or clean up the garbage on the street. So, not everyone can earn a lot of money!


This is why it is important that everyone develops within the limits of his personal power. If you for example exceed this limit, this will damage your own development and your well-being as well as your relationships and humanity as whole.


That is why I ask you today the question do you know your  personal power? Try to investigate and to meditate about this!


If you have any questions about this or need help, please contact my husband Ton Creemers, who is brilliant in reflecting people in their character and knows your talents and other characteristics within 2 minutes. But he needs till an hour and a half to explain you this and what you can do with it! Not only that he is my husband and he is very talented, but I really see how people change, feel finally recognized and understood and get inspiration and motivation to reach something more in their life!


Thanks for watching! I wish you a great day and all the best!

With love and appreciation!