Author: Natasha

Do You Feel Safe In Your Relationship? 



Hello dear people!


In my work as a coach I often meet people who don't feel safe in their life and also not in their relationship. The need to feel safe in life is one of the basic human needs that we people need to satisfy on a daily basis.


That means that we need to feel free in the expressing of our feelings, emotions, thoughts and ideas; and to feel free in the way we are and want to be!


Self-expression is our birth right and our highest good. When we don't feel safe in life or in our relationship we will not be able to open our mouth. Then we will start to hold in, to step back and to hide.


When people do this consistently on a daily basis, they start to become tired, get headaches and many other negative consequencies on their health and well-being.

And this can become an issue in relationships. Esspecially when people live together for a longer time, they start to develop expectations from each other about how their partner needs to behave, dress or communicate...!

And when one of the partners consistently can not reach the expectations of the other partner, over time they will start to close their heart and stop showing what they really experience. Then the fear will come in and problems can grow.


Because my mission is to inspire people to develop to their fullest potential, and happy relationships are the key to a happy life, I was inspired to make this video!


I invite you to share your ideas, thoughts and experience with me on this topic!


With love and appreciation!







Hello dear people!


Today I like to remember you to question our reality and not to take things for granted.  And in this video I would like to invite you to think and to do things differently!

Namely, we people get easily used to certain habits, behaviours, structures, systems, rules, traditions…And often unconsciously we repeat certain behaviors or habits. At the same time we are often not aware that on the long-term, these have a negative influence or even can be harmful to our future, our lives or our relationships.

But, change is not easy for us as human beings. We people shall only change if in certain situations we walk against the wall or we feel pushed somewhere to the corner. Because the greatest longing in us is to stay faithful to our known identity.


In this video I use as an example the behavior of the ants in the nature, which walk very faithfully in each other's footsteps and bring food to their colony. But, when their living conditions drastically change and when all their traces that help them to return to their colony have disappeared; in their attempt to survive the ants start to walk in each other's footsteps again. AND then unknowingly, they sometimes continue walking in large circles until they die.


And this pattern often happens in our life and relationships too. We humans often repeat certain behaviors, even if they don't work, because we don't know how to do things differently in order to change our living conditions.

Instead of sticking to the old learned behaviors, in this video I would like to invite you to start thinking OUT OF THE BOX! Try things out in a different way,  experiment and search and don't settle down until you  find a way that works for YOU!


Know dear friends that the best way to separate and to break the relationship is to blame and to shame each other. And be aware that positive reinforcement is much more efficient than a negative one.


And one thing is sure. LOVE has a special power. Love is an irresistible force when it is sincere. And LOVE can break through any shield when it is consistent. This is a spiritual law.


So, think out of the box! Let your creativity play and try to discover what works for YOU!


I wish you lots of success and lots of LOVE!


With love and appreciation!




How To Make The Right Decisions?



Hello dear people!

I made this short video inspired by a client I've had this morning who needed to take a decision in a short time & under pressure…!

In my idea, one of the most important inner guides when making decisions is our inner peace. For example, do we feel this inner peace when we choose the first option, or the second option?

In my experience the decisions based on fear or on feeling restless or unquiet inside are not the right ones. Learning to trust our inner feelings is crucial. The beautiful thing in this process is that the more we learn to listen to our inner voice, the sharper it becomes!

What is your experience? And how do you make your decisions in this kind of circumstances?

I would love to hear from you!

Thank you for watching!

With much love and appreciation!


Do You Hear Or Do You Listen?



Hi dear people,


In my work as a coach in personal development I've noticed that many people don't know the difference between listening and hearing. And this is or can become a huge problem in relationships, especially in partnerships, but also in friendships and also in work relationships.

Since life is becoming busier and we are daily exposed to every kind of information from different kind of sources; we have to choose constantly to what we are going to give our attention and to what not. Therefore very often the attention for each other stays on the surface and the communication becomes functional. Then people only hear half to each other and make a lot of assumptions. And this is destructive for the communication, especially in close relationships.
Everyone wants to be listened and understood in the deepness and not everyone likes immediately to hear advices and solutions. Self-expression is our biggest birthright. When you deeply listen to the other person, you feel also deeply connected.

And in the essence everyone longs for a deep(er) connection with others. And deep connections are created when we are really interested in each other and listen carefully to what the other person likes to say with empty head and open heart. Then the other one feels spiritually embraced.

Since I’ve noticed that this is a problem in many relationships, I was inspired to make this video. My motivation is to contribute a little bit to the quality of your relationships in the wish that you can connect deeper with each other; because I’ve understood that the real happiness comes when we are capable to connect deeply with other human beings.

Thank you for watching! I wish you a great day and till the next video!

With love and appreciation!

Natasha Martinoska

     JOY Keeps Us Vital, Healthy And Alive!



Hello dear people!


In this video I speak about joy! Joy was an issue in my life. As a child I was too serious. And I realized later that when we have tests and difficulties in life, it is not always easy to find the joy again. And this video I dedicated to joy to remember us that joy is very important because of number of reasons:

- Joy strengthens our free will;
- Joy gives us wings;
- Joy keeps us healthy;
- Joy builds on creativity;
- Joy strengthens our self-esteem system!

And sadness belongs also to life. Only we may learn to feel it and to let it go and not to cherish it. Because people who cherish sadness over many years, unconsciously build on fear and therefore can create many problems to themselves. So, joy is what is keeping us vital, healthy and alive!


Let met know what gives you joy, I would love to hear from you!


Thank you for watching, I wish you a great day and till the next video!


Warm greetings,



Hereby the link to the video over to please vs to serve:


5 Reasons Why PATIENCE Is So Important In Our Life!




Hereby the link to the video: To hurry up is to slow yourself fown in achieving your goal:


Hello dear people!


Patience is one of the most important qualities that I had to learn in my life. I was always very ambitious and wanted often to do everything at once until I understood that this attitude is not good for me and also it doesn't  work.

By going through my life's circumstances and my life's lessons I've learned to value patience much more and also to practice it. In this video I explain 5 reasons how it comes that patience is so important for our personal development.

There is a very nice expression which is saying: "The world belongs to the patient man".


I hope you enjoy the video. A wish you a beautiful day!

Warm greetings,


To Hurry Up Is To Slow Yourself Down In Achieving Your Goal!



Many people today live in a hurry. Time has become so precious today. Living in a hurry for some people has become a way of life.

I also had this constant rush in my life. Until I understood that when I do the things in a hurry I arrive later at my goal. This was a huge lesson for me and my inspiration to make this video!

In my work as a coach I see this issue also present in the life of the people I work with. And this attitude has more aspects:
1) To hurry up breaks you down!
2) Decisions made in a hurry often are not the right ones!
3) To hurry means not to have trust in life that life will give you on time what you need.
4) To hurry slows you down!

In this video I give 5 tips how to go on with this issue.
I hope you find these useful.

Thank you for watching! A wish you a great day!


Warm greetings,


Irritation and Annoyance My Biggest Teachers



Hello dear people!


Here is Natasha with you today and my topic for today is: “How it comes that the people who annoy you are your biggest teachers”!


Most of the people want to live and work in environments in which they are surrounded with people who like them. Namely, we all like to work with people with whom we can communicate in an easy way, who understand us quickly and we don’t have to use too many words to explain what we mean!
But how big is the chance that we can live and work only with people on our frequency? Very little!


This was my motivation to make this video in which I explain the difference between irritation and annoyance in the hope to help people to create better relationships with themselves and their surrounding!

Watch my video if you like to learn more about this!


With much love and appreciation!


Four Conditions and Tips for a Happy Relationship!




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Hello dear people!

In this video my dear husband Ton Creemers, (who is expert in relationships, among his other disciplines) and me are talking about the four conditions which are necessary in order to start a happy relationship in the basic and we are giving also some tips for having a great loving relationship!

These four elements are:
1) the purpose in life;
2) the intellectual level;
3) the feelings and emotions; &
4) the physical attraction.

When the first three are there, then people have a good friendship. But, all the four aspects are necessary for having a good, happy and loving relationship.

Watch our video if you like to learn more about this!

With much love and appreciation!

Natasha and Ton


Hereby the link to the video: The Difference between Falling in Love and LOVE !

The Difference between Falling in Love and LOVE !



Hello dear people!


In this video I’ve invited my husband Ton Creemers who is expert in relationships, among his other disciplines, to speak together with me about the the difference between Falling in Love and Love!


Namely, in my work as a coach I’ve noticed that many people don’t know the difference between these two topics. Falling in love is short term, while Love is something which can develop and grow on long-term depends on the characters of both partners and what they will choose. Love is a verb and needs a lot of work and effort, so it needs to be cherished and nurtured.

Watch our video if you are interested to know more about this very important topic in life.


Thanks for watching and I wish you a great day!


With love and appreciation!

Natasha and Ton


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